For Partners
Safety, Trust & Emotional Stability in the Relationship
Safety for an incest survivor isn’t built through reassurance, it’s built through consistent, attuned, predictable presence over time. …
What Incest Survivors Wish Non-Survivors Understood About How Incest Trauma Alters Your Thoughts, Feelings, Body, and Relationships
You can’t see it when you pass us on the street. You won’t hear it in casual conversation. But those of us who’ve survived incest live with an invisible inheritance,… …
Understanding Reenactments in Love, Attachment & Conflict
Reenactments aren’t signs of incompatibility, they’re trauma patterns that dissolve the moment both partners stop personalizing them and start understanding their roots. …
A Word of Caution for Anyone Who Loves (or Wants to Love) an Incest Survivor
Dec 8
A list of characteristics, behaviors, and relational patterns that do not align with a survivor’s healing. …
Partner Well-Being, Emotional Health & Boundary Care
You can’t support an incest survivor sustainably unless you protect your own emotional health, boundaries, and well-being with the same tenderness you offer them. …
Supporting the Survivor’s Healing Journey Without Overstepping
Dec 8
You can’t heal your partner’s trauma, but you can become the steady, compassionate presence that makes healing safe enough to happen. …
A Sacred Partnership
Dec 8
How to Build a Relationship That Heals Instead of Hurts”→ Explores conscious relationship practices that repair relational wounds. …
Love Without a Map
Dec 8
The Challenges and Rewards of Loving an Incest Survivor”→ Compassionately outlines the difficulties and gifts of this path. …
When Touch Becomes Too Much
Dec 8
Navigating Physical Intimacy with a Survivor”→ Offers trauma-informed ways to build consent and safety. …